It is one week to my birthday and what better way to kick celebrations than to revive my blog! I have always been better at penning my thoughts than speaking them loud, not to say I am also an eloquent speaker, but writing for me is therapeutic!
This year I turn 43! When you are on the other side of the big four-o, you start understanding or rather paying more attention to mortality. My husband says I have become philosophical; I say I have started appreciating life more!
I was reading articles about life after 40 etc and read about “Things to do before you turn 50”. This was it! I had to document everything that I want to do before I turn 50! It will give me personal goals to achieve and keep me focused on living life rather than just life. I have 7 years to mark off at least some things off my bucket list!
So I started putting together my list and realised that what I wanted to do may not be all completed in 7 years! It gave me all the more reason to complete the list and ensure that I attempted to do all the things that I wanted to do in this life…..after all it is not like I will get another chance!
So here is my list in no particular order. Some of them would be easy to tick off but some of them would take a lot more focus and effort. But at least I have put them down on paper! I aim to have it printed and in front of me so that this remains my priority!
50 before 50
- Climb Harbour Bridge
- Visit Uluru
- Take a Mediterranean Cruise
- Road trip in Europe
- Visit J&K and Kerala
- Lose 20 kg
- Travel to Japan
- Take a solo trip
- Run a half marathon
- Have a family portrait done
- Write gratitude letters – at least once a month
- Do 30 days of random acts of kindness
- Go on a trip with my parents
- Go to New York with my sister
- Learn a new language
- Visit my dads ancestral home
- Make a family time capsule
- Throw a surprise party for my husband
- Go skydiving
- Start singing again and sing in a public event
- Fly first class
- Meet Sheryl Sandberg and Indira Nooyi
- Go to movies alone
- Make an annual tradition and stick to it
- Celebrate my 25th anniversary with a party
- Volunteer at a kids charity at least once a month
- Have a girlie trip with my girlfriends
- Visit taj by moonlight
- Watch the top 10 Hollywood movies of all times
- Watch the top 10 Bollywood movies of all times
- Read the top 5 novels by Indian authors
- Sleep under the stars
- Stay a night at Leela at udaipur
- Travel on Indian pacific or Ghan
- Own a business
- Learn to bake a cake
- Write my blog for one year straight
- Take a picture everyday for one year
- Learn a new skill
- Learn to swim
- Join a random book club
- Publish a book
- Ride on a river boat dinner cruise
- Get my hair coloured bright red
- Do a spa day
- Get some custom stationary with “mschamko” printed on it
- Write a fan letter to Amitabh Bachchan
- No internet or mobile for one day a month
- Donate blood
- Have a fabulous 50th birthday party!