I am very clear on this one – I want to be remembered as a kind person. All of us have this superpower and we should use it more and more. You can be kind and firm, kind and strong – kindness does not preclude any other quality.
I want to be remembered as a considerate daughter, loving sister, dependable partner and a loyal friend. That would be a life beautifully lived. Nothing else matters and everything else is transient. These are the only goals that I have for my life and what makes me sleep straight at night.